Malachi 4:5-6– 5“Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the LORD. 6And he will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the hearts of the children to their fathers, lest I come and strike the earth with a curse.”

I. The Target – One Clear Bullseye to Aim At

• Fathers Are Fixers

− The Perceived Targets: Provision, protection, college, sports, behavior, grades are all good. But none of those are THE target. You can hit all of them and still lose your child.

− The Right Target — The Father’s Heart Turned

II. The Filter — One Question for Every Decision

The One Question: “Will this turn our hearts together, or pull them apart?”

III. The Four Non-Negotiables

Ephesians 6:4—And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord.

I. God Measures Gifts by Outcome, Not Expression

• Outcome Is Prioritized

1 Corinthians 14:1 – Pursue love, and desire spiritual gifts, BUT ESPECIALLY that you may prophesy.

• Outcome Is Contrasted

1 Corinthians 14:2 – For he who speaks in a tongue does not speak to men but to God, for no one understands him; however, in the spirit he speaks mysteries.

1 Corinthians 14:3 – But he who prophesies speaks edification and exhortation and comfort to men.

− The Outcome: Edification, Exhortation, and Comfort TO MEN

1 Corinthians 14:4 – He who speaks in a tongue edifies himself, but he who prophesies edifies the church.

− The Outcome: One Builds Himself, the Other Builds the Church

• The Desired Outcome – The Edified Church Body

1 Corinthians 14:5 – I wish you all spoke with tongues, but even more that you prophesied; for he who prophesies is greater than he who speaks with tongues, unless indeed he interprets, that the church may receive edification.

II. God Measures Gifts by the Understanding Not by the Instrument

• God Seeks Our Profit

Romans 8:9-11 – 9But you are not in the flesh but in the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God dwells in you. Now if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he is not His. 10And if Christ is in you, the body is dead because of sin, but the Spirit is life because of righteousness. 11But if the Spirit of Him who raised Jesus from the dead dwells in you, He who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your mortal bodies through His Spirit who dwells in you.

1 Corinthians 12:1-7 – 1Now concerning spiritual gifts, brethren, I do not want you to be ignorant: 2You know that you were Gentiles, carried away to these dumb idols, however you were led. 3Therefore I make known to you that no one speaking by the Spirit of God calls Jesus accursed, and no one can say that Jesus is Lord except by the Holy Spirit. 4There are diversities of gifts, but the same Spirit. 5There are differences of ministries, but the same Lord. 6And there are diversities of activities, but it is the same God who works all in all. 7But the manifestation of the Spirit is given to each one for the profit of all:

I. The New Nature of The Body – Spirit Filled

Acts 1:4-5 – 4And being assembled together with them, He commanded them not to depart from Jerusalem, but to wait for the Promise of the Father, “which,” He said, “you have heard from Me; 5for John truly baptized with water, but you shall be baptized with the Holy Spirit not many days from now.”

• The Occasion for the Gifting – Pentecost

Acts 2:1-2 – 1When the Day of Pentecost had fully come, they were all with one accord in one place. 2And suddenly there came a sound from heaven, as of a rushing mighty wind, and it filled the whole house where they were sitting.

• The Transformation of the People – The Holy Spirit

Acts 2:3-4 – 3Then there appeared to them divided tongues, as of fire, and one sat upon each of them. 4And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance.

I. The Gifts are Partial and Temporary.

1 Corinthians 13:8-9 – 8Love never fails. But whether there are prophecies, they will fail; whether there are tongues, they will cease; whether there is knowledge, it will vanish away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part.

• Love NEVER fails – does not fall apart, does not wither, is never used up.

• Prophecy and knowledge FAIL – eclipsed by something greater.

− Fail and Vanish Away (katargeo) – abolished, nullified, made of no effect. It is passive, meaning something outside them does it to them.

• Tongues stands alone (pausontai; future middle) – cease.

• Prophecy and knowledge end when the perfect comes — a fixed point; tongues end by need, not by a date.

− Prophecy and knowledge are Revelation Gifts: when full sight comes, they are eclipsed.

− Tongues is a Communication Gift: the need for a communication gift is Situational.

II. The Partial Ends When the Perfect Comes.

1 Corinthians 13:10-12 – 10But when that which is perfect has come, then that which is in part will be done away. 11When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things. 12For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know just as I also am known.

• That which is Perfect

− The Completed Bible

− Our Completed Spiritual Maturity

− The Return of Christ Himself

III. The Last Man Standing.

I. AGAPE — A Different Kind of Love

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 – 4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

● Agape Suffers Long — It stays when every natural impulse is screaming to leave.

● Agape Is Kind — It gives good when the flesh is demanding revenge.

● Agape Does Not Envy — It can celebrate someone else without needing to diminish them.

● Agape Does Not Parade Itself — It does not need an audience in order to feel valuable.

● Agape Is Not Puffed Up — It is secure enough to stay low.

John 13:34-35 – 34A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. 35By this all will know that you are My disciples, If You Have Love for One Another.”

I. The Wrong Way – Ranking and Comparison

Romans 12:3-4 – 3For I say, through the grace given to me, to everyone who is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think soberly, as God has dealt to each one a measure of faith. 4For as we have many members in one body, but all the members do not have the same function…

1 Corinthians 12:31-13:3 – 31But earnestly desire the best gifts. And yet I show you A MORE EXCELLENT WAY. 13:1Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal. 2And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but

have not love, I am nothing. 3And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, it profits me nothing.

• The Verdict on Tongues — White Noise: “I Say Nothing.”

1 Corinthians 13:1 – Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I HAVE BECOME sounding brass or a clanging cymbal.

• The Verdict on Prophecy, Knowledge, and Faith — Identity Loss: “I Am Nothing.”

1 Corinthians 13:2 – And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, but have not love, I AM NOTHING.

• The Verdict on Self-Sacrifice — I Gain Nothing: “I Profit Nothing.”

1 Corinthians 13:3 – And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, but have not love, IT PROFITS ME NOTHING.

I. Motherhood Is More than Birth — It’s a Life Rhythm

• Raising Children requires a Daily Rhythm.

Deuteronomy 6:7 – You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, when you walk by the way, when you lie down, and when you rise up.

• Raising Children requires a Devoted Parent.

Deuteronomy 6:6 – And these words which I command you today shall be in your heart.

II. Motherhood Takes More than You – It Takes a Family

• The greatest protégé Paul ever had was discipled at a kitchen table.

1 Corinthians 12:14-22 – 14For in fact the body is not one member but many. 15If the foot should say, “Because I am not a hand, I am not of the body,” is it therefore not of the body? 16And if the ear should say, “Because I am not an eye, I am not of the body,” is it therefore not of the body? 17If the whole body were an eye, where would be the hearing? If the whole were hearing, where would be the smelling? 18But now God has set the members, each one of them, in the body just as He pleased. 19And if they were all one member, where would the body be? 20But now indeed there are many members, yet one body. 21And the eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you”; nor again the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.” 22No, much rather, those members of the body which seem to be weaker are necessary.

I. The Autoimmune Mechanism

• A healthy body attacks what’s foreign; an autoimmune body attacks what’s natural.

Galatians 5:15 – But if you bite and devour one another, beware lest you be consumed by one another!

• The church's Autoimmune Disease is an “Anti-Body Ideology” — the deeply embedded theology of individualism that has taught us to function as isolated units rather than connected members.

Matthew 16:18 – “And I also say to you that you are Peter, and on this rock I WILL BUILD MY CHURCH, and the gates of Hades shall not prevail against it.”

1 Peter 2:9 – But YOU ARE a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, His own special people, THAT YOU MAY proclaim the praises of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light.

I. We Have an Identity Problem

• What is a community? A group of people organized around something they share in common.

• What is a Body? A single organism with many parts held together by shared life.

Romans 12:4-5 – 4For as we have many members in one body, but all the members do

not have the same function, 5so we, being many, are one body in Christ, and individually MEMBERS OF ONE ANOTHER.

II. The Holy Spirit Didn't Come Just to Live in YOU – He came to live through US.

1 Corinthians 12:12-14 – 12For as the body is one and has many members, but all the members of that one body, being many, are one body, so also is Christ. 13For by one Spirit we were all baptized into one body — whether Jews or Greeks, whether slaves or free — and have all been made to drink into one Spirit. 14For in fact the body is not one member but many.

19 After a long time the lord of those servants came and settled accounts with them.

20 “So he who had received five talents came and brought five other talents, saying, ‘Lord, you delivered to me five talents; look, I have gained five more talents besides them.’

I. He Became Flesh

John 1:14 – And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father, full of grace and truth.

II. He Humbled Himself

Philippians 2:7-8 – 7He made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of a bondservant, and coming in the likeness of men. 8And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross.

III. He Suffered Innocently

1 Peter 2:22 – Who committed no sin, nor was deceit found in His mouth.

I. Eternal Life Is Not Merely Believing in Jesus — It Is Knowing Jesus

John 17:3 – And this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent.

II. The Holy Spirit Makes Jesus Personal, Not Merely Historical

1 Peter 1:6-9 – In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by various trials, 7that the genuineness of your faith, being much more precious than gold that perishes, though it is tested by fire, may be found to praise, honor, and glory at the revelation of Jesus Christ, whom having not seen you love. Though now you do not see Him, yet believing, you rejoice with joy inexpressible and full of glory, 9receiving the end of your faith—the salvation of your souls.

The Holy Spirit must not be defended by Scripture; He must be DEFINED by it!

I. Movement 1 – The Holy Spirit Begins the Life of Christ in Us

1. Creation: The Holy Spirit creates a new life through a new birth.

John 3:5-6 – 5Jesus answered, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God. 6That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.

Core Purpose: To initiate divine life where none existed that is capable of

perceiving and participating in the Kingdom of God.

2. Sustaining: The Holy Spirit becomes your inner source.

John 4:14 – “But whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. But the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life.”

Core purpose: To provide ongoing internal supply for spiritual vitality.

The Holy Spirit must not be defended by Scripture; He must be DEFINED by it!

I. Movement 1 – The Holy Spirit Begins the Life of Christ in Us

1. Creation: The Holy Spirit creates a new life through a new birth.

John 3:5-6 – 5Jesus answered, “Most assuredly, I say to you, unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God. 6That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.

Core Purpose: To initiate divine life where none existed that is capable of

perceiving and participating in the Kingdom of God.

2. Sustaining: The Holy Spirit becomes your inner source.

John 4:14 – “But whoever drinks of the water that I shall give him will never thirst. But the water that I shall give him will become in him a fountain of water springing up into everlasting life.”

Core purpose: To provide ongoing internal supply for spiritual vitality.

Acts 17:28—“For in Him we live and move and have our being, as also some of your own poets have said, ‘For we are also His offspring.’”

John 10:10—“The thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.”

I. The Holy Spirit Is Not an Addition to Life — He Is the Source of Life

• Life from God has always come through His Spirit.

John 6:63— “It is the Spirit who gives life; the flesh profits nothing. The words that I speak to you are spirit, and they are life.”

• The Pattern of Creation

Genesis 2:7—And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils “The Breath of Life;” and man became a living being.

I. Life with God as Your Center

• You live in the Conscious Awareness of God, others, and yourself.

Matthew 22:37-40 – 37Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the LORD your GOD with all

your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38This is the first and

great commandment. 39And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your NEIGHBOR

as yourself.’ 40On these two commandments hang ALL the Law and the

Prophets.”

• God is our Center.

• Others are our Mission.

• Self is Stewardship — not the center.

• You live in the Constant Awareness of the presence of God.

Psalm 16:8 – I have set the LORD ALWAYS BEFORE ME; because He is at my right hand

I shall not be moved.

• You live in the Clear Awareness of the true God.

Hebrews 11:6 – But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to

God MUST BELIEVE THAT HE IS, and that He is a REWARDER of those who

diligently seek Him.

• You live in the Captivating Awareness of the God ALL THINGS.

I. Life with God as Your Center

• You live in the Conscious Awareness of God, others, and yourself.

Matthew 22:37-40 – 37Jesus said to him, “‘You shall love the LORD your GOD with all

your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38This is the first and

great commandment. 39And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your NEIGHBOR

as yourself.’ 40On these two commandments hang ALL the Law and the

Prophets.”

• God is our Center.

• Others are our Mission.

• Self is Stewardship — not the center.

• You live in the Constant Awareness of the presence of God.

Psalm 16:8 – I have set the LORD ALWAYS BEFORE ME; because He is at my right hand

I shall not be moved.

• You live in the Clear Awareness of the true God.

Hebrews 11:6 – But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to

God MUST BELIEVE THAT HE IS, and that He is a REWARDER of those who

diligently seek Him.

• You live in the Captivating Awareness of the God ALL THINGS.

I. Life Operates by Jurisdiction, Not Desire

Romans 7:1 – Or do you not know, brethren (for I speak to those who know the law), that the law has DOMINION over a man as long as he lives?

• JURISDICTION – The invisible fence that determines what is legally possible in your life.

THE MARRIAGE LAW

Romans 7:2-3 – 2For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. 3So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man.

II. You Don’t Escape the Law — You Die to It

Romans 7:4 – Therefore, my brethren, you also have become DEAD TO THE LAW through the body of Christ, that you may be married to another— to Him who was raised from the dead, that we should bear fruit to God. (By Proxy = Jesus’ Body)

• Death is the intended outcome of God’s law.